Saturday, May 23, 2020

Uncle Pete

Today uncle Pete passed away. He was the last one of my grandparents children to die. He was 90 years old. Today marked the end of an era.
Calvin Beldon Pauley
On an Autumn day when Uncle Pete was about 4 years old an event took place in the Pauley family that, to their dying days would not be forgotten.
Here is the story.
Uncle Pete and his siblings had little cares on that October day. They all were well fed and clothed and loved. They had been born to hard working parents. The barn was filled with hay and tobacco. The cellar was brimming with jars filled with the harvested summer garden.
But in a tragic moment the world stopped turning for uncle Pete and his mother and four siblings. It was a moment so heavy with grief, sadness and tragedy that it was never meant to be borne.
Uncle Pete's daddy lay dead upon the ground. His strong, young heart of gold pumping the last ounce of blood from the gaping wound in his chest. His blood ran into the rich dark soil he had loved and tended.
A millstone had blown apart and thrown, as if from a hateful and skilled enemy, a shard of stone directly into his fathers chest. It struck him with such force that he fell instantly dead to the ground.
And in that moment the lives of Uncle Pete and his family were forever changed. Their lives altered for all time.
The next day the wooden box where the body rested was lowered into the ground as Lola and her children, Evelyn, Van Buren jr., Juanita, Uncle Pete and Billy watched. And a lonely little little cemetery on a green hill side became a hallowed spot.
And life for Uncle Pete and his mother and his family had become an up hill struggle for their very existence.
Uncle Pete, Uncle Billy, Uncle Jr.
Uncle Pete did survive. He became a husband, a father, a business man and my Uncle. And he lived to the age of ninety.
So long Uncle Pete.
 Kat, Jr., Nancy, Pete, Evelyn (mother) Phyllis, Billy & not pictured Aunt Juanita who had passed away previously.

I send my love to Nancy and Shawn and Kim & Doug & their families.

Sunday, May 3, 2020

Following the Dream

Have a dream. Call it anything you want. Call it a passion, a goal, destiny. But have it.
Then get to work on accomplishing that thing , that career that whatever it is that you love and desire and dream about.
Then while working for it dont forget to have fun and some pleasure and enjoy the journey. Cause life passes faster than you think.
Warning. Make wise choices along the way. Dont be persuaded to do dumb things. If you've a doubt about what to do in any given situation; ask several people for advise. Then make the choice.
Dont be lazy. Laziness is a dream killer. It's a self inflicted wound. It's the most stupid move you can make. Worse than pulling off your fingernails with pliers...one at a time. Dont be lazy.
Get smart. Education, whether it's a trade, a college degree or career training, will help move you along on your journey through life.
I'm, as I write, watching an invisible phenomenon taking place high in the blue skies above my porch. Its invisible because it's happening in the atmosphere. It's called an up draft. I know it's there even though it's invisible because of two reasons. One I understand that air molecules are invisible and two because being lifted upward in ever widening and higher circles are ospreys and vulchers; and a few times as I've watched this recurring phenomenon I've seen eagles and white pelicans too.
This invisible column of upward lifting air ,this updraft in the atmosphere, lifts these birds upward to the heights they long for.
You need to find yourself an updraft. Something that lifts you, pushes you upward, inspires you and thrusts you forward toward that dream of yours.
Those bars that will someday be on your shoulder, that career that will take you places you can't imagine, that license, that degree, that horse ranch, whatever it is.
Follow the dream, have fun.